Expression of feelings..
There has always been different and clashing viewpoints on expression of feelings, whenever I observed or discussed i got an answer that, feelings are not to be expressed openly for your loved ones or even if it is, it has to be in a subtle way. I have been a person who has always expressed feelings openly and with lot of loudness along with the silent gestures. when we express and share the reason should be feelings for the person whom i am sharing and not the result or reaction of the world.
Human nature is very inherent with sharing and expressing. when we see to the social media sites nowadays it shows it all that no matter families have become nuclear, no matter socializing has gone down, no matter we do not have time to meet and share things we have found mediums which gives us platform to stay connected share and express feelings.
It definitely depends upon individual to individual how introvert or extrovert, how reserved or open or how much one likes to share and express but those who do have a different impact all together. As a person you will have your own guidelines on expression of feelings and sharing your happenings of life but you have got one life that too so uncertain before something happens and you do not have time left to tell your loved ones how much you love them or share your feelings…DO IT NOW…
Now when i say it loud and clear without a fear in front of the world(social media) that i am happy for someone; i am in love with my husband or wife, or i got a wonderful surprise does it make you a show off kind of a person or will it be seen as sharing and expressing and spreading the infectious disease i.e. love…
My idea of expression is that as far as it is positive and loving, as far as it is sharing and expressing of feelings, as far as it is not hurting anyone else, i will share it with my network. Because it is natural to every human being; sharing and expressing is an essential need which gives sense of belongingness and content.
when an expression comes out in public(in one’s own network)where the message or statement is decent enough to share why is it that there are EYE’s rolling on it and its taken as a swank. Its makes it so special when you express it with an open heart.
EXPRESS SHARE SPREAD… positive feelings and good things in life because it spreads and creates an aura of positivity and happiness around. People who express and share good things or even a trivial incidence in life that made them happy are always looked upon high and they encourage others to spread and do the same.
vibhuti š
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August 18, 2010 at 8:40 AM
santasizing...Fantasizing
well said…u put me in some deep thought with respect to expressiveness..im not one of those ppl who are loud with expressions,but I believe its important to express ur feelings to people who matter..thanks for putting this up..im gonna implement it:)
August 18, 2010 at 8:48 AM
Vibhuti Duggar Mutha
I am glad that you liked it, and even more happy to know that you will implement it š
August 18, 2010 at 9:10 AM
Antriksh
Good one, this is a biggest issue we face today.
August 18, 2010 at 10:29 AM
kapil
well said vibhuti……ths days social media has been a great medium to Express and share our feelings…..n its getting popular day by day….bt you have drawn a very dark line between expression and show off….whch many peoples interpret in wrong way….ths social media has been a great medium to b in touch wid ur friends n relatives….ths article of urs will definetly encourage others to express and show wht thy feel abt thr friends n relatives…atleast it encouraged me….keep on writing n motivating cheers………
August 18, 2010 at 11:48 AM
Vibhuti Duggar Mutha
@Antriksh Thanks for the reading and appreciation :)@kapil I am glad that it encouraged you, thanks for appreciating and reading š
August 18, 2010 at 12:26 PM
wonderfulwandering
Agreed.Well written post.Expressing ourselves keep us sane.Not a fan of social media as a medium though.
August 19, 2010 at 6:43 AM
Vibhuti Duggar Mutha
Thanks….Shreya š glad that u liked it !
August 19, 2010 at 6:53 AM
Bandana
As usual lovely words, and i know the way u express and I also always believe that expression is the best way to love anyone, your parents, in laws, family, children, friends, lover, hubby grand parents, anyone for that matter, all forms of love begin with expression.and as u said life is uncertain AND WE ALL HAVE JUST ONE LIFE " Where is the time to hate when there is so little time to love "and Love may it be of any kind can never ever harm anyone and only a person who loves knows how beautiful life can be :)this one's exclusively for you :Keep writing, keep expressing, keep spreading happiness and smiles, the world seems worth living with people like you around and the best part, we met, we share, we live and we love. love u sweetheart š
August 19, 2010 at 6:57 AM
Vibhuti Duggar Mutha
@Bandana mam Thanks a ton, for lovely words and expressions š
August 19, 2010 at 11:01 AM
Anonymous
hi.. ur Bandana ma'am is my Bandana bhua n c fwd me d link to ur write up and i muct say u write good.. even i agree wid wat all u wrote and truly its so imp to express b4 its too late.. š
August 19, 2010 at 11:05 AM
Vibhuti Duggar Mutha
Hey i am glad that u liked it and thanks a lot for the appreciation š it encourages a lot š
August 20, 2010 at 9:35 AM
priyanka
good work vibzz…it'll help me a lot, actully inspired
August 20, 2010 at 11:49 AM
kirti
truly amazing… u have a gr8 command on ur language thoughts and expressions….
August 21, 2010 at 7:28 PM
Vibhuti Duggar Mutha
@priyanka thanks š and happy to know tht it inspired :)@Kirti Thanks for the appreciation really means a lot š